I am currently seperated with the divorce starting in the next week or so. I have no interest in having him back in my life. My two girls, 11 and 17, are my life. I am a nerd at heart but love horror movies. I am loyal, trustworthy and love having fun. I'm not materialistic. I listen to most kinds of music from classic through to metal. I love the ocean and nature's beauty. I enjoy quiet nights at home watching movies or just chatting. I am an aspiring writer and just love the English language despite being Afrikaans. I am kind and gentle and hate conflict. I am also very honest!

I want someone who doesn't want to move fast. Friendship first. Be honest, communicate with me. He'd have to get along with my gorgeous girls. I need someone to make me feel valued and worthwhile. Treat me with respect, I'm not a doormat nor a servant. Make me feel like a woman. . . Small things in life make me happy. . . I need someone who takes good care of himself but knows how to take care of someone else. . . Be confident, not arrogant. Be patient. . . Love nature and animals. I need someone to make me laugh and feel good about myself!